Reflecting on 2017

As another year draws to a close,  I reflect on the experiences that have shaped 2017.  There have been both good and bad.  If I had to pick one word to describe this year it would have to be CHANGE.

I would have to say the event that has had the most impact on my day-to-day life is the decision to step away from a career I had spent the last 7+ years developing. This has been one of the best decisions  made, as it was consuming all my time and energy. After much prayer and pondering, the decision was made that it was time to make that change. I haven’t regretted it since.

We were blessed with another granddaughter this year!  Her joy can be contagious! As you see her smile from head to toe, you find you can’t help but smile too! I treasure the time I get to spend with both of my granddaughters. It was probably the biggest factor in deciding to leave my job. 

I also, had to say goodbye to one of my dearest friends to cancer this year. Her departure has definitely left a void that I feel daily. I choose to fill that void with cherished memories and the knowledge that I will see her again someday.

The time I get to spend with family and friends is something I am extremely thankful for. It is not something that is lost on me, as it was very limited over the last 7 years.

I realize a career change is not feasible for everyone, nor maybe desirable for all. The only thing I wish to convey is spend time making memories with those you love to the best of your ability and cherish every second!

Please Don’t Call Me A Housewife!

 

 

Housewife and Homemaker…..

These terms are often used interchangeably when referring to someone whose main occupation is overseeing the care and maintenance of their household. The question is do they really have the same meaning?

I submit to you that while technically they refer to the same thing, they actually have different meaning. Let’s examine…

 

House is defined as as a building designed for human habitation.  That’s it, just a dwelling nothing more.  A rather sterile and institutional term.  However, the word home has a much more personal meaning. It is a place where one feels comfortable or identifies with.  It is a place that one claims as their own or is near and dear to their heart.  A home is what a house aspires to be.

We can get a further insight into this by how people express things. They don’t exclaim, “I’m going to my house”,  instead they say “I’m going home”.

Other expressions that further emphasize this are:

  1. Home is where the heart is.
  2. Home Sweet Home
  3. There is no place like home,
  4. I feel at home.
  5. Make yourself at home

I feel the term homemaker would be a better title for my occupation. I am not merely a married women who works at her house, I am one who devotes her time making her house a home.  I strive to making my house a place where my family is comfortable and desires to be. This term truly encompasses the roles and duties of my job.

So by all means please call me a Homemaker, as I feel that it more accurately defines the roles and responsibilities of my position!